My problem now is the texture of the hair. I have quite thick frizzy hair, real Caribbean mom Surinamese dad Antillean and I really don't like such a thick short bush on my head.
My question the products you offer on the site a kind of clay is that also to defrizz the hair. If not can I use a children's relaxer to make the hair look a bit better again. Also for my short haircut.
Braids and dreads don't suit me and to be honest they're not my thing. I think it's beautiful on you and others don't. I'm looking for a solution. I still wear the wig on my natural hair. Not glued on.
Is it wise to use the children's relaxer while my hair is not fully recovered? Please do you have any tips? Thanks in advance.
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Hi,
I'm so happy to hear that your hair is doing well and hope you'll post a review of the products that have worked so well for you and improved your hair.
Unfortunately I do not offer products to defrizz hair and I would honestly recommend them to you because of your experience. The basis of the hair problems we have comes from the fact that we have problems with the texture of the hair. Women want to do everything to not show that frizzy hair because they do not feel comfortable with it. They do not like it and do not feel beautiful, some are downright ashamed of their hair and 70% go so far that they would rather destroy their hair than walk around with frizzy hair.
I myself have seen my hair break 3 times to almost a bald spot like you had. This after I had grown a lovely healthy curly hair by braiding for 6 months. It hurt me every time to see my hair break and see that bald spot again. My problem was not that I had problems with the texture, but that I did not know what to do with my curly hair.
In the end it all worked out because that's why I do what I do now so that others don't have to go the way I did. So that others can see that so much is possible with afro hair and can find their own way in it.
Of course it is your hair and in the end you have to make a decision yourself. The only thing I can tell you is to be careful with your beautiful curly curls because even if you don't like them when they are gone it will make you very sad and despite what is said they are very fragile.
I also think Sisterlocks might be something for you. These are very thin locs that don't immediately look like braids, locs or frizzy hair. In May I'm organizing a frizzy hair weekend. Hopefully you can come and see a demonstration.
Odi,
Mireille
The recommended products were:
Going Natural Herbal Shampoo and Going Natural Detox Conditioner
The peppermint is very good to stimulate the scalp and thus also activate the hair roots so that the hair can grow extra, but your scalp should not be damaged.